Category: confidence
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This came through me, all of the quotes are from my higher self. My favorite is the swimming one for you’ll be swimming your whole life. Your soul grows, learns and transforms all the time. Love yourself through every phase. Be fearless and free -Ace -
How do you define love?
In life there are really only two things; love and fear. It is that simple. Everything that isn’t fear is love and anything that isn’t love is fear. Love to me is a feeling, a connection and a vision. Love is an action, an emotion, a relationship, a mindset and an intention. Love makes you feel complete and whole, at peace and excited for life. I spent too much time with fear in my life and I have now shifted completely and live my life fully based on love. I feel balanced, joyous, passionate about my life and happy about the people in it. Love creates the reality you want.
How would you describe soul centered living?
I think of it like this; your body is the avatar and your soul is the real you. Your soul is the truest part of your being, it taps you into your past lives, into feeling truly alive and into the deepest place of love. When you live from your soul there is no need to think anymore. You do everything based off feeling and deep knowing in your intuition and heart. You realize you are a special piece of the Universe and the Universe is you. Then everything you go through in life becomes an adventure or a practice to trust your soul enough to act only from it and not your little mind.
The voices in your head, how do you define them?
I believe there are two voices in your head, just like there are really only two things in life. The first voice, the only voice you should listen to is your higher self/the Universe/your soul/love/the real you. This voice supports you, wants the best for you, loves you and ultimately is the true you, the one who is the Universe. The second voice, the voice you should tune out is what I call your little mind. I say little because it acts like it has power but in reality it has no power, making it little. This voice is pure fear and does not have your best interest in mind. I wouldn’t say it is evil for without it you wouldn’t know what courage is, you wouldn’t grow and you wouldn’t see the power of love.
How do you tune out your little mind?
You need to differentiate your little mind vs. your real self/love. You’ve got to realize which voice is talking. Once you realize which voice you’re listening to then you can tune out that little voice for realization is the first key to anything. Then, you’ll need to constantly set an intention to act only from love and to only listen to love. You can say to yourself a lot, “I am living from love/my higher self/the Universe/whatever you want to call it.” When that little mind starts talking repeat that mantra or simply just focus on something else. Once you do this enough, it will get very quiet and won’t bother you as much. It will always be there, but you won’t even dwell on it. It will have no power over you.
How do I listen to the synchronicities?
Again, the first step is you need to realize them. They are happening all around you, you just can’t see them or you choose not to. Open your eyes fully. Once you see one you’ve got to fully grasp its message. If you’re living from your soul this will take you two seconds. Your soul knows, you’ll have this strong knowing and it will just make perfect sense. Then you’ve got to act on it, once you know the message don’t ignore it or the Universe will slap you on the head (metaphorically and for your benefit). Trust your heart and your soul not that nagging little mind and go for it. As crazy as it may seem always remember that the Universe has your best interest in mind.
How do my thoughts create my reality?
Your thoughts hold more power than you know. The Universe is always listening to you and acting upon your thoughts. The Universe doesn’t hear negatives. For example if you say, “I don’t want to lose this,” the Universe hears, “I want to lose this.” And the Universe doesn’t stop at just hearing what you say, it acts on it immediately. Everything is connected and things conspire to make a reality. The reality you live in doesn’t just happen. It is shaped by your thoughts, beliefs and visions. When you catch yourself thinking negatively or about things you don’t want, don’t freak out. Take a deep breathe and think of what you do want. Don’t pay attention to the tricks your little mind plays, pay attention to the magic the Universe presents you with.
I hope this helps you on your journey of life! I’ll be doing more articles like this for I think it makes things super clear and hopefully it is very helpful. I feel like my younger and fearful self is asking the questions and the person I am now is answering them. Comment with any questions you want answered. Be fearless and free -Ace
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I hope this helps you on your journey! This video is entirely my work. It is so funny I was just starting to want to get into video editing and the Universe conspired and helped me do that. This is the first of many I’m sure! I love to create and music is my thing so combining the two seems just right. Be fearless and free – Ace -
Hello readers! I hope this helps you become fearless and free! Enjoy!
Confidence came to me recently. I think it is something that comes and goes but I do know that I feel like my best self and everything I do is better when I feel confident. Confidence comes from inside, not the outside world. How you think about yourself, how you handle what other people think/say about you and the way you carry yourself all contribute to your level of confidence.
You have to let go of all fear to feel truly confident. You might feel sparks of confidence when you’re still holding on to fear but once you let go you’ll really know how it feels. If you’re like me and really hard on yourself then confidence is a little harder to come by. That is ok, having high expectations for yourself is good, just don’t be too crazy. Give yourself credit where credit is due. You are stronger than you know, you are doing your personal best. That deserves credit and you should totally feel confident about that.
That was the hurdle for me to jump, how do I balance being hard on myself and always wanting more and being confident and giving myself credit. Life is a journey and you just learn along the way. Everyone’s journey is different. I think over time you just learn how to balance it, and you’ve got to be good at seeing that your little mind is talking to you and not your higher self. Your higher self will give you the true credit you deserve and will motivate you to be better when you need to. It will never berate you or think negatively about you for it sees you for who you are.
Confidence shows in the way you hold yourself physically and the way you communicate with yourself and others. Society wants you to think of you as just another human in the billions that are supposedly on this world. You are unique, different from the pack and a pivotal part of this Universe. Stand tall and proud. Talk to yourself as you’d talk to your best friend. I struggled a ton with posture in the past and I still do a little bit. When I was filled with fear and not really wishing to stand out, my posture was really bad and slouched. Over the years it has gotten better, but I do catch myself here and there.
It is ok to be shy and quiet, just make sure you’re not pushing down your voice and silencing yourself. If you are silencing yourself you’ll know based on how you feel. You’ll feel lonely, timid, regretful and something inside of you will feel like something is missing; as if, your heart is not quite full and your soul is not complete. Don’t quiet yourself, speak your truth, speak your mind, use your voice. I can’t tell you how many times I learned this lesson. In my life, there was one instance that forever changed me and I’ve always used my voice since. It takes courage, some kindness towards yourself and the belief that your voice deserves to be heard.
One of the hardest parts for me in journey with confidence and using my voice was the regret and all the “I wish I said this or this”. It still bothers me a little bit to this day. But, once you have your voice and your confidence you’ve got to be kind to yourself and be proud. You can never go back and there is no point in beating yourself up about past situations. All those times you were scared to speak up made it possible for you to learn to speak your truth and to gain confidence. Those times made you the person you are today and helped you grow.
That feeling when you know who you are, speak your mind fearlessly and freely and have utter confidence in every moment you live is indescribable and incomparable. The one word I could use would be free. And unstoppable. Nothing will hold you back, people and your little mind will tell you “you can’t do that” and you’ll just laugh. You won’t believe it because you’ll know you can do anything you set your mind to. You’ll feel free of others’ expectations and thoughts about you, free from your little mind always trying to convince you you’re small, free from fear and free from pain. Pushing things down and being constantly scared continuously hurts yourself. It is as if you are the punching bag and fear keeps hitting you over and over again until finally you let go of all the pain and fight. Then you break free.
So, let go of fear, listen to your higher self, balance holding yourself to high expectations and giving yourself credit where it is due, be aware of the way you communicate with yourself and the way you hold yourself physically, recognize when you silence yourself and don’t speak your mind and be kind to yourself and grateful for any experience that helped you grow. Confidence truly does feel amazing. Break Free. And remember there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Confidence comes from love, Arrogance comes from fear. Your soul will know which one you are accessing.
Thank you for reading and for your connection! I hope this helps you on your journey! -Ace
Fearless Free Soul 